The Blog

As a newspaper columnist, Nancy Devlin, Ph.D. has written over 700 articles on subjects related to education and parenting. Welcome to her Classroom!

PARENTS DEVELOP YOUR CHILD’S SELF-ESTEEM

There  is  a great deal written about self esteem  and  what teachers and parents can to do to help develop this attribute  in children. Dr. Julius Segal in the Brown University Child Behavior  and Development  Letter writes that teachers have … Continue reading

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Discipline, What Does It Mean?

Renee Polreis of Colorado was convicted of beating her adopted two-year old son to death with a wooden spoon. Like their parents before them, many adults feel it is necessary to use force to punish children “for their own good”. … Continue reading

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Cooperative Learning Is the Cure For Bullying

Adults who model violent punitive behavior produce children who become bullies and who lack other techniques for solving problems. Don Olweus, a psychologist from Norway, studied 150,000 Norwegian and Swedish students and found that 8% of the children were bullies … Continue reading

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THANKSGIVING — WE’RE FAMILY

    Thanksgiving traditionally is the time for the whole  familyto get together.  Some members enjoy this, others do not.  In the movie,  “Home  for  the  Holidays”, one  family  member  says  to another: ” We don’t have to like each other.  … Continue reading

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Remember Children Are Concrete Thinkers

Eliza Doolittle of “My Fair Lady” fame sings a song about words. With a few changes this song could well have been written for young children to sing to their parents and teachers. With apologies to Lerner and Loewe, here … Continue reading

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Are You a Participant or an Observer?

The world seems to be made up of people who are either participants or observers. Which role we elect sometimes is a matter of choice and sometimes a matter of expediency. At some professional conferences, the role of the participant … Continue reading

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Birth Rank

Alfred Adler’s theory of personality states that the way we react to people and situations depends upon our lifestyle. This, in turn, reflects our beliefs about ourselves, other people and the world. The structure for this fundamental personality trait is … Continue reading

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Families are a Child’s First Resource in time of Trouble

Parents need to be certain that their children feel loved no matter what they do, do not do, become or do not become. You are their parents and while you may not approve or accept their behavior, you will always … Continue reading

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Violence in Relationships — Unacceptable

Parents need to model appropriate behavior when their children are young to teach them that violence in relationships is unacceptable.  Parents must counteract the dominant theme in many movies, television shows and pornographic publications which graphically depicts violence toward women.  … Continue reading

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Bullying….What to Do

Bullying is widespread and happens in most schools.  As a parent, there are things you should and should not do if your child is experiencing bullying in school.  First, tell your child that it is not his or her fault.  … Continue reading

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